LESSONS LEARNED — AGAIN!!!

LESSONS LEARNED AGAIN—–

 THIS MORNING I RECEIVED SEVERAL E-MAILS FROM MCS SISTERS– WHO WERE COMPLAINING THAT THEIR FAMILIES DIDN’T UNDERSTAND THEM OR THEIR MCS– & THEIR FAMILIES  SAID TERRIBLE THINGS ABOUT THEM  & NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY SOMEONE TURNS IT AROUND &  MAKES A BIG DEAL OUT OF SOMETHING- THEY HAVE NO FRECKING CLUE ABOUT ANY WAY!!!

AND MANY WERE DREADING HAVING THE HOLIDAYS COME UP & HAVE TO BE WITH SOME OF THESE FAMILY MEMBERS– WHO RUINED THE HOLIDAYS—-

I TOLD THEM— TO JUST AVOID THOSE PEOPLE & PRAY FOR THEM– BECAUSE NO MATTER  WHAT YOU SAY — THEY WILL MAKE A POINT OF NOT UNDERSTANDING– OR TURNING IT AROUND– BECAUSE– THAT IS JUST HOW IT IS— NO MATER WHAT YOU SAY– OR FELL– OR WHAT YOU HAVE GONE THROUGH —THEY WON’T UNDERSTAND ANY WAY– SO WHY WASTE YOUR TIME ON THEM!!

THEY SAID— BUT IT REALLY HURTS THE LIES THEY SPREAD– & THE THINGS THEY TELL OTHER PEOPLE & IT GETS BACK TO THEM— & SHOULD THEY TRY TO EXPLAIN TO THE PEOPLE  -WHAT IS TRUE–  THAT THEIR FAMILY HAS LIES TO–

I TOLD THEM— THAT IF THE PEOPLE WANT TO BELIEVE THE CRAP— THEN THEY ARE NOT ANY BETTER THEN THE ONES SHARING IT!!! AND SOONER OR LATER THE TRUTH PREVAILS— AND THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE WHO JUST WANT TO THRIVE ON NASTY — NEGATIVE — DRAMA!!! AND I HAD PLENTY OF THEM IN MY FAMILY ALSO!!!!

NO MATTER WHAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS WITH SOME ONE ELSE—OR WAS WITH SOMEONE ELSE—  NO ONE ON EARTH CAN KNOW WHAT IT IS— OR WAS LIKE EXCEPT YOU—- AND THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE WHO — ARE JUST NOT GOING TO FRECKING GET IT NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY OR DO!!!!

SO AVOID THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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OH– AMEN!!! AMEN!!! AMEN!!!!

THEN A SHORT TIME LATER– II RECEIVED SEVERAL E-MAILS FROM PEOPLE I KNOW IN KANSAS–OUR OLD HOME AREA—- SAYING DID YOU KNOW— THIS– OR DID YOU KNOW THAT– OR DID YOU KNOW YOUR NIECE SAID THIS– OR DID YOU KNOW THIS FAMILY MEMBER SAID THAT— OR– OR– OR — OR– OR—

I E-MAILED THEM ALL BACK— & SAID—- I AM NOT  PART OF THAT!!!!!  LET THEM SAY WHAT EVER THEY WANT TO—  IF THEY WANT TO SAY— WHAT EVER THEY WANT TO SAY— IT IS FINE WITH ME— BECAUSE THE PEOPLE WHO REALLY KNOW ME & KNOW THE TRUTH– DON’T BELIEVE THE CRAP– & THE ONES WHO DO BELIEVE IT– ARE NOT ANY BETTER THEN THE ONES SPREADING IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! IT IS ONLY THAT PERSON’S OPINION— & MAYBE THEY SHOULD LOOK AT THE PERSON SAYING THESE THINGS &  HOW THEIR LIFE HAS BEEN LIVED & IS BEING LIVED— THAT SHOULD SPEAK VOLUMES!!!!!!!!

WE DON’T ANY LONGER LIVE IN THE NEGATIVE— DRAMA– & ALL THAT CRAP—- THAT IS NOT A PART OF OUR LIVES ANY MORE– & NEVER WILL BE AGAIN!!!

WHEN WE LEFT THE AREA WHERE GARY & I GREW UP- & MOVED TO BRANSON, MO.– WE HAD A HUNDRED BILLION POUNDS LIFTED OFF OF US— IT WAS NO LONGER NEGATIVE!!!!!!!!!!!! NO LONGER — THE BAGGAGE OF FAMILIES MEMBERS– THAT IS ASSOCIATED WITH YOU– BECAUSE YOU ARE RELATED TO SOMEONE!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE NO LONGER JUDGED BECAUSE YOU ARE RELATED TO SOMEONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FOR YEARS I WAS JUDGED –BECAUSE I WAS RELATED TO SOMEONE ELSE & SO WAS GARY!!!

AND SOME PEOPLE TRY TO DRAG US BACK INTO THE NEGATIVE– & DRAMA— BY E-MAILS SAYING– THIS FAMILY MEMBER SAID THIS– OR SAID THAT— ALL I CAN SAY IS— TAKE A GOOD LOOK AT THAT PERSON & HOW THEY LIVE & HAVE LIVED THEIR LIFE  &  CONSIDER THE SOURCE!!!!!!!  WE DON’T LIVE THAT WAY— & THEY CAN SAY ANY DAMNED THING THEY WANT TO— CAUSE I REALLY DON’T GIVE A RAT’S ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  WHAT THEY SAY— IS  NO LONGER IS A PART OF ME– OR MY LIFE– & YOU DON’T NEED TO SHARE THE INFORMATION!!!!  THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!

AND TO MY MCS SISTERS—- YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE DECISION YOUR SELF—– ARE PEOPLE WHO YOU MAY LOVE— & YOU PRAY FOR —GOING TO ROB YOU OF THE JOY IN YOUR LIFE— THEY ARE NOT IN MINE— & I AM NOT GOING TO BE A PART OF THE MEANS OF THE CARRIER –WHO BRINGS ME –THE DRAMA & NEGATIVE— TO US—– I JUST TELL THEM— THANK YOU– BUT I REALLY DON’T CARE & I REALLY DON’T WANT TO HEAR IT– THANK YOU— BUT THAT IS NOT HOW WE LIVE OUR LIVES!!!!!!! AND WE CAN LOVE SOMEONE– & PRAY FOR THEM & STILL NOT HAVE THEM IN OUR LIVES!!!!!!!!!!! AND THERE ARE SOME FAMILY MEMBERS WHO ARE NOT HAPPY UNLESS THEY ARE STIRRING UP SHIT & TALKING ABOUT OTHERS & CAUSING DRAMA!! BECAUSE THEY ARE UNHAPPY– THEY WANT THE REST OF THE WORLD TO BE UNHAPPY!! OR MAYBE THEY DON’T EVEN KNOW WHAT BEING HAPPY EVEN IS!!!

YOU & ONLY YOU– CAN DECIDE–  WHO YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE IN YOUR LIFE– & WHO YOU ARE GOING TO AVOID—I HAVE HAD MANY FAMILY MEMBERS FOR YEARS– WHO WENT OUT OF THEIR WAY TO HURT ME– OR CAUSE ME PAIN– & “WHY”  IS THEIR PROBLEM NOT MINE— BUT I DON’T HAVE TO ANY LONGER HAVE TO HAVE THEM IN MY LIFE!!! JUST THAT SIMPLE— WHAT THEY SAY– WHAT THEY DO– HOW THEY LIVE– IS NOT ANY LONGER A PART OF MY LIFE!!!

YOU HAVE TO MAKE YOUR OWN DECISION—- BUT — I CAN’T HELP YOU— & YOU ARE NOT ALONE— WE ALL  & I MEAN– ALL HAVE FAMILY MEMBERS LIKE THAT— SOME ARE IN-LAWS!!   🙂

BUT I AM NOT A PART OF THE CRAP ANY MORE— & I CAN’T BE DRUG INTO IT AGAIN– NO MATTER HOW HARD SOME PEOPLE TRY TO DRAG ME BACK INTO IT– I AVOID IT– & JUST SAY– TO THEM–THANK YOU FOR SHARING— BUT I HONESTLY DON’T CARE— & I DON’T!!!  AT ONE TIME IN MY LIFE I DID— BUT I  REALLY & TRULY DON’T ANY MORE!!!

THERE IS WAY TOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH -TO LIFE —-THEN HAVING OTHERS MAKE YOUR LIFE MISERABLE BECAUSE THEY ARE MISERABLE!!

MANY OF US– ARE FIGHTING TO STAY AS WELL & HEALTHY  AS POSSIBLE— THE NEGATIVE & NASTY — SPEWED OUT BY OTHERS WHO LIVE NEGATIVE LIVES– DOESN’T HAVE TO BE SPEWED ON US— WE CAN AVOID IT!!!!!!!

IT IS OUR DECISION— WE CAN’T CONTROL OTHER PEOPLE– & WHAT THEY SAY– & HOW THEY ACT– OR WHAT THEY DO— BUT WE CAN HAVE CONTROL HOW IT EFFECTS US– OR ROLLS OFF OUR BACKS!!!

I HAVE CHOSEN– TO LET IT ALL ROLL OFF MY BACK– AS THEY ARE NOT IMPORTANT IN MY LIFE!!! WHAT DO YOU CHOOSE??????????

 

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KEEP A SENSE OF HUMOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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AMEN— AMEN– AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

REBLOG– FROM OCT 28, ’13

https://sondasmcschatter.wordpress.com/2012/10/28/lessons/

Don’t let others STEAL YOUR “JOY” IN LIFE!!!!! If they want to be miserable– that is their choice– not yours!!!!!!
WE ALL HAVE ONE OR MORE LIKE THIS IN OUR FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
 
 
 
OH– AMEN– AMEN– AMEN– AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SOMETIMES– WE HAVE HARD LESSONS TO LEARN IN LIFE BEFORE WE CAN MOVE ON– & DISTANCE OUR SELVES FROM OTHERS & LIVE OUR OWN HAPPY LIVES WITHOUT THE NEGATIVE & HURT & DRAMA!! LIFE CAN BE REALLY GOOD– & GOD IS GOOD– Sometimes all we can do is distance ourselves & forgive & pray for others!!! And keep a good sense of humor!!!! :)
Did I say today how much we love love love love love love love love love love living in Beaituful Branson, Mo. USA??????
LATER GATORS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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About sondasmcschatter

I was encouraged to start a blog as I suffer from MCS /multi chemical sensitivities & other health problems & I have helped several hundred others who suffer from MCS set up "Safe Homes" & given them encouragement & HOPE & share information & lots of laughs along the way also. When you choose to use fragrances, chemicals, or pesticides, You are not simply making a choice for yourself, You are making a choice for everyone around you!!!! What makes me an expert on MCS-- not a darn thing-- BUT have lived with it for years-& years- & have learned lots the HARD WAY-- by experience!! And want to give others help & HOPE & encouragement -- as I know there are not many who understand what it is to live with this illness- & ALL THAT GOES WITH IT!!! Internet has been my way of communication with many who we are confined to their "safe homes" all over the USA & other countries!! I have communicated with many HUNDRED by e-mail-- phone & letters & internet forums-- I hope this blog will help in a better way to share laughter-- hope & information!!! As for many are not any longer able to even leave their homes-- & communication is sooo important & sharing & encouragement & GIVING HOPE!!!
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3 Responses to LESSONS LEARNED — AGAIN!!!

  1. Colleen says:

    You tell girlfriend. I especially like the sandpaper quote. 😀

  2. You can’t give people compassion if they don’t have it already. You can’t make some one understand if they don’t want to try. Like the saying goes, You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink.

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